Trapped?

Have you ever felt trapped? Stuck in the place you are because the idea of moving away is to traumatic or to dark to see what could happen next.
So you are here and you are stuck because you don't feel you can move on but you want to. If you enjoyed your surroundings and the situations you experienced (and I promise you, people do love their lives) you wouldn't want to move on from them and you probably won't. But then there are the people who are miserable who are sad and who should move on albeit the lack of faith stands in their way. Perhaps they have to much faith; hoping that one day the situation they are in will revert back to how it used to be, but is it healthy to stay in a situation like that, one of discord and stress?
We talk about "could of, would've, should've" and those are easy distinctions compared to the sometimes over bearing idea of "what can be"
There is no one that can tell you what to do, no one that can truly predict the future. People will help us and people will offer their advice but in the end it will be up to us to act on it and if we choose not to then it may not happen.

But for the record no one deserves to be unhappy, despite anything they've done in their lives. Sometimes the things we do are wrong in the eyes of other people and we have to accept that, but we all should accept ourselves and the things about us that people don't always admire.
Don't be afraid to be happy, don't let yourself be guarded by your comfort when your comfort is the one tormenting you with its subtle problems that you have grown accustomed to having and therefore, knowing whats going to happen next you take what is given to you and ask no more. There is so much more though!! You can do anything that you want and there is nothing stopping you but you. Imagine your life without limits and if you can picture yourself doing something other than what you are doing now then you have bigger things in store for yourself and you should stop holding yourself back.

(c) 2008 Markus Dingcong